My poetry post: Say it all

I realize after much thought nobody is perfect, not that I didnt know. I can't and you cant let negativity manifest in your minds! It becomes this toxic chemical building inside holding you back! I have made it a note to surround myself with people who will encourage, motivate, support, allow me to grow, learn, and vice versa. Am happy being happy so anything, or anyone that isnt on the same quest can sit back and watch me be happy with a frown on your face!

It isnt to be taken personally it is the fact that I have grown to become and will continue to grow to be the best person inside and out I can be with or with out you!! Despite my flaws, am okay with them so if you love the good things about me, then there must be the other side which as I work on me you can try to accept! Everybody has two sides!!

So as I turn my day into something productive, I dont want to glance at my facebook page to see the negativity, my bbm stays turned off so I can stay in my blissful state, my heart smiles, continues too...so
I can feel embraced

Nobody told me the world could rip you apart and spit you out! Nobody told me I could bounce back and land on both feet! And if they did I would have smiled and said no way!

I want you to know that tomorrow is always a better day, so when you look over your shoulder remember that what ever you are facing you are not alone! It is that bad, someone's got it worst. Dont let the bullies take your life, dont let them destroy who you are!

Because nobody is perfect!

Voices will sound in your head because you have heard it time and time again, patience for anyone willing to let them silent, slowly they will. Days that seem to never end, put on your house coat, grab your favourite treat, realm in your self, comfort, and beauty...

Anger broils when they do that to me, but its because nobody's perfect so when I want to throw my book at your face, or become that childish brat on your bbm, or forget my age. I remind myself am only human but a classy lady inside holds me back. She holds me back

I realize that my goals are to important to fail, my heart to fragile to hurt, my body to precious to abuse, my mind continues o grow wth knowledge, experience, books, present and past. Love is what I am, love is what I get. As I toss and turn in circles, it"s not because am confused am over joyed by the love all around me. I have given myself the greatest gift of all.

If you never accept yourself who will? ...when the world lets you down, remember there are millions here!

So my imperfections upset you, but I see yours as the qualities I dont have! I realize nobody's perfect and the minute I stop trying to be someone am not, my heart, my eyes, opened to a whole new world.

Am content!

And if nobody's perfect then why are you still sitting with the frown on your face...the people around you couldnt relate..you gave them the power to take you away...but your upset at me because your "perfections" arent perfect too...

Please dont take it personal


By: Stansia Hood
Dejavunaturals

The Misavdeventures of Awkward Black girl

I came across this video on 4aces and am so in love with it!!!..It is not only funny but also thought provoking...Enjoy

xoxo

Happy Natural Valentine's day to all!!!! **Viewer Discretion is Advised****

It feels so good to be back writing and I know I have probably said that it three or more. Here is my valentine Day music list. Let me know what you guys have on your list !!

Black Love is so Beautiful




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 It's amazing to see the smile on your face, to watch you as you make my life complete. I love you because you are the most amazing person I have met, caring, loving, kind, passionate all the qualities I need from you in my life. I am happy to call you my own, to have you as my own.

~~~~~Dejavunaturals

Valentine Nail Art

I made a cd for my hubby and here are some of my favorite songs I had on the cd, and he loved it so much

Valentine's Day CD

1. Brain Mcknight- Back at one 
                           - Crazy Love

2. Lloyd- Valentine

3. Donell Jones- I'm gonna be

4. Janet Jackson- That's the way love goes

5. Tevin Campbell- Can we talk

6. Jackson 5- Never can say goodbye

7.Aaliyah- One in a million


Spend Valentine's Day with the people you love and remember to keep the love for eachother all through the year with your love ones.  So cherish what you have 365, everyday and every year.

Here are some pics to Enjoy, as a kid we enjoyed these little cards that we exchange, this brought back memories ...xoxoxo













Happy Valentine's Day to all of you

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LOCK AND KEY "BLACK LOVE"

When I first started writing I was about eleven. I love to write every and anything, it is such an amazing feeling to learn and grow and be able to share it. I started writing because I was so shy and quiet and it was a way to release and say what I wanted. I thank you all for tuning in day after day, I always try to think about what my readers are looking for and when questions are ask make sure to answer. It always amazes me to see the places people are tuning in from, so thank you I am humble. I took some time to write a short piece of what I am working on right now, it will soon be turned into a book. I would love to have some feedback.

I watched as he put his arms around me, and wiped the tears away from my eyes, "Baby, I love you". It seemed like yesterday when he first said those words to me. Every night he went to bed he would hold me tight and if it wasn’t close enough say "baby, come closer”. I always joked about how close he wanted me and deep down I was so happy to have a man that loved me and wanted me close to him, and kept me warm at night. On the cold nights he had a way of telling me strip naked, he’ll keep me warm throughout the night. Although I would wake up on the other side of the bed I would fall asleep right in his arms.

I had asked for a man that was loving, kind, caring and even though there were things I could do without he was absolutely worth putting up the fight for. The minor things I could live with.

His arms came up quickly as he changed his shirt and I remembered the first time I saw his body and what I had thought, well, I wanted to kiss every spot covered by melanin, trace his lips on mine and watch as he responded with a kiss on my neck, and lips. Right in that moment I wouldn’t be able to stop so the night would end with us in each other’s arms.

There was always a surprise something new to learn and right then and there I knew he wasn’t the average man. He reminded ambitious and always on time, keeping me near his heart. It made the ones who didn’t stand a chance cringe when they saw us together “what, I thought you didn’t want a girl”, I said the same thing “I’m happy alone”. So no more games, no more playing around we fell in love, the sweetest way. Six weeks later he knock on my door said “get out of bed, I got something to say, I love you baby and am here to stay”.

See, that is the love my grandfather used to say that a black man will love his woman. So after I have gone through all the men that threw me away, the ones I wished I never knew, the ones I said goodbye too. I find peace with him. I often wish I found him first. I wonder if his maturity came with age but whatever it was he was sent for me. So yes I hold him tight, cause when he runs his arms down my spine, kiss me on my forehead, holds my hand so tight, protect me from the world and looks into my eyes, I am complete knowing my love isn’t in vain.

When I hear him whisper my name “baby you okay” and with the same reply “I’m okay baby, you okay”, I don’t mean to sound in the skies but, have you ever had that kind of love? I mean the one that makes you wonder if you were ever in love.

I watched as he put his arms around me and wiped the tears away from my eyes. “I love you”

Stansia

Dejavunaturals